Refusing to marry in the family's house and inability to afford building a separate house

Q 8: I am a young man and I work as a teacher. I am thinking of getting married, but I am hindered by my inability to build a separate house from my father's. I cannot afford to do this with my monthly salary (Part No. 18; Page No. 23) in the near future, because it is too low; it is barely enough to sustain me and buy some clothes and books. What do you suggest I do? If I live with my father, I am sure I am going to face too many problems to solve.


A: We advise you to fear Allah (Exalted be He) as He should be feared and obey your parents in anything other than that which entails disobedience to Him. Whoever fears Allah, He will appoint for them a way out of every distress, and will provide for them sources they could never imagine. Whosoever puts their trust in Allah (Exalted be He), He will suffice them. You should also consult a trusted, experienced person who knows about your situation, so that they may find a solution to your case. A witness sees more details than someone who is not present. You can also hasten to marry according to your financial abilities, even if you have to rent a separate house. May Allah help you. May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.


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