Q 2:
Is it obligatory for a woman to maintain the ties of kinship
and is she commanded just like men to maintain these ties? A man once asked the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) about maintaining the ties of kinship with those who severed the ties with him and he (peace be upon him) said,
Maintain relations with anyone who has severed relations with you and give to anyone who has deprived you.
Bear in mind that most of my relatives, especially from my father's side hate that I contact the girls of the family and advise them regarding their religion, since they disapprove of my behavior. (Part No. 25; Page No. 294) I stay in my house, wear Niqab (face veil) and Jilbab (loose outer garment with no front opening) and do not sit or mix with men. My relatives fear for their girls from me, although most of them do not even pray.
A:
Maintaining the ties of kinship is obligatory on both men and women, based on the general evidence in this regard. This can be done by visiting them, treating them kindly and helping them. You have to continue inviting your relatives to what is good in a fair manner and provide evidence to support your words. As for wearing the Niqab and abstaining from intermixing with marriageable men, this is your duty as a Muslim woman.May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.